Shelbsyd, you are very welcome!* The best thing you can do for your plants is add organic matter to sandy soil to improve the texture of the soil, improve water retention and add nutrients.* Compost that can be purchased in bags or made at home is great for that.* It's not recommended to just add compost to the planting hole as the plants will tend to keep their roots in just that area, but add it to the entire planting area or bed.* A 3" or 4" layer mixed into the soil would be wonderful for your plants.
Mulch will also help to retain moisture in the soil, keep soil temps more even and help keep weeds at bay.* At 2" or 3" layer of organic mulch such as shredded bark would be good and is important in sunny, dry and hot areas.
Btw, wilting and yellowing of leaves can be caused by overwatering as well as underwatering.* You might want to gently dig down as close to the rootball as possible to see how wet the soil is.* That will give you a better idea of what is happening.* Here's compost and mulch calculators so you'll know how much you need.
http://www.atstecks.com/mulch.htm
http://www.cedar-grove.com/calculator.asp
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When weeding, the best way to make sure you are removing a weed and not a valuable plant is to pull on it. If it comes out of the ground easily, it is a valuable plant.