Hi Isabella,
Your planting scheme sounds exciting. You don't say where you live, but in the US, woodland poppy is native and I'd leave it alone. Less to pull out.
Vinca is also an invasive here, so if you have planted it near a woodland or a stream, watch that it doesn't get out of control and spread into those areas.
I'd love to see pics of your planting.
Newt
When weeding, the best way to make sure you are removing a weed and not a valuable plant is to pull on it. If it comes out of the ground easily, it is a valuable plant.