Hi Andrea,
So sorry for your loss.* Unfortunately willows, including Salix babylonica - weeping willow and Salix capria pendulata - dwarf weeping willow aka Kilmonock willow, are prone to many diseases and pests and are short lived trees.* Take a look at these to see if any of it fits what you see.
http://www.atl.cfs.nrcan.gc.ca/index...wblight-e.html
http://agebb.missouri.edu/pdc/diagno...s/blight01.htm
http://www.extension.umn.edu/project...cs/willow.html
http://www.ext.nodak.edu/extpubs/pla...es/f1192-3.htm
Newt
When weeding, the best way to make sure you are removing a weed and not a valuable plant is to pull on it. If it comes out of the ground easily, it is a valuable plant.