Gerry, you don't seem dumb at all!* Asking questions is how I learn too.* :)* To amend you soil the best thing you can use is organic matter.* You've got it right - compost, leaves, yard and grass clippings that haven't been treated with herbicides or pesticides, etc.* As far as the manure goes, it depends on how fertile your soil is and what it needs.** A soil test from your local extension service is always helpful to know what is missing and what is needed.*
http://www.ncsu.edu/extension/
Since your soil is so compacted you might want to do sheet composting aka lasagna composting over the winter.
http://www.motherearthnews.com/Organ...Gardening.aspx
http://www.bconnex.net/~carolw/lasagna1.html
If you find you don't have enough 'greens' you can get spent coffee grounds from your local Starbucks.* They have a program for gardeners and share their goodies.* Be sure to have some type of large tub to take with you to put the bag in.
http://www.epa.gov/epaoswer/osw/cons...ws/04-star.htm
You can also ask for the trimmings from a local sandwich shop or salad cafe.* Use your kitchen trimmings too.* You just need a balance of greens and browns.* It takes more then just one year to build the soil, but eventually you will have great soil.
Btw, I'll take a salad instead of a card!* :)* I'm glad I can help.
Newt
When weeding, the best way to make sure you are removing a weed and not a valuable plant is to pull on it. If it comes out of the ground easily, it is a valuable plant.